This type of attachment style characterizes a person who is comfortable getting close to others, but also feels comfortable being alone.
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Distancing from one's spouse in disaffection includes
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2 out of 2 points In this stage of separation, a child shows signs of distress, anxiety, and even anger when the parent or caretaker leaves.
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Extroverts do not have to think to talk
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2 out of 2 points There are six types of child abuse. Which of the following types involves a child witnessing an escalating parental argument?
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Anger is the confluence of
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Which of the following triggers can elevate an emotion that has been stuffed?
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Marriage is God's vehicle for expressing and enjoying sex.
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2 out of 2 points It is estimated that 2nd generation divorces are influenced by anger from their parent's divorce in % of the cases.
Question 10 Genesis 2:24‑25 is God's marital prescription to
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The Disorganized person
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2 out of 2 points Lisa says to Jake, “Honestly, I really think that we are better off as friends.” Internally, which of the following statements best describes Jake thought processes if he is an angry dependent?
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Barriers to listening include:
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2 out of 2 points Our core beliefs are developed by asking the following questions about self and others. Which one does NOT belong?
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The model of helping children to appropriately deal with their feelings is called
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Unresolved anger is sinful, but has no long‑term negative effects
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Which of the following are a part of the six messages of communication?
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Marriage is really a give‑and‑take relationship
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The non‑verbal component of our messages makes up what percentage?
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Philippians 4:8 challenges us to think on whatever is
Marital intimacy includes safety to share one's
Which is not one of the Five Love Languages.
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2 out of 2 points A person who does not like sharing feelings with others would be categorized as which attachment style?
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In the context of relationship disputes, dissolution involves
The Scriptures reveal that divorce is due to
Human love is insufficient to make marriage work for a lifetime.
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2 out of 2 points Different learning styles require that we communicate to people in their own language. Which of the following are types of learning styles.
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2 out of 2 points According to the textbook, the underlying reason for why we do the things we do is known as .
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Which of the following is NOT true about the Avoidant Attachment Style?
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2 out of 2 points Clinton and Sibcy discuss six steps toward calming your emotional storms. In this they explain that relationships can be a means of …
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The four 'germs' of relational trouble and anger include
The sacred romance in Scripture is about God's love to mankind.
When we see our spouse negatively we tend to view them as
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Developing an empathic heart has little to do with marital reconciliation.
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The Five Love Languages are an example of love as an emotional need.
Physiologically we can listen times as fast as we can speak.
These types of emotional reactions are typically denied or repressed.
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When Smalley talks about 'treasure‑hunting' he means
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Which of the following IS an appropriate way to teach children how to handle emotions?
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The Five Love Languages include:
Which of the following is NOT an attachment style?
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Because of God's image, men and women are more alike than they are different.
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Which statement best describes a person with a disorganized attachment style?
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God created men and women in the image of His physical self.
Women have % more brain connectors than men.
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The healthy expression of can actually be a healing experience.
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2 out of 2 points According to Smalley, our perception of something influences us as much or more than the thing itself.
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2 out of 2 points Divorce was a concession by God for the hard‑heartedness of man and was granted through
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2 out of 2 points The ability to turn off thoughts, feelings, and even physical pain to move experiences to some other part of the consciousness is known as .
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2 out of 2 points According to the textbook, how many touches, on average, do children need to feel per day from parents?
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Identify your attachment style by choosing one of the four styles presented in the book. You must explain why you chose this attachment style by using key terms and identifying major components of the chosen style.
Out of the four attachment styles presented in the book I feel I can most relate to the "Secure Self". This doesn't mean in any way that I am perfect. In fact, just a few years ago I would have not imagined that the Lord would have been able to do such a work in me to bring me to this place in my life. The Lord has revealed to me that “Emotional Strength” (Clinton & Sibcy, 2006, p. 61) is being able to accept my feelings and emotions and adequately express them to the people around me. Another way the Lord has blessed me is that he has given me the ability to “Seek and Accept Comfort” (Clinton & Sibcy, 2006, p. 61). When things are rough I understand that humans were created in Gods image to need intimacy. Another way that I have grown immensely is in the area of “Courage”(Clinton & Sibcy, 2006, p. 62). I realize that relationships are hard work, both my husband and I put in long hours and yet still understand that our relationship requires more. It is a never ending commitment to continue to do more.
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Question 52
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How does your identified attachment style (identified in question 1) influence your relationship with God?
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My secure attachment style is through God’s grace as my relationship with God continues to grow. My relationship with God is first based on the knowledge that I have done nothing to earn my friendship with God, the most I have done is say “yes” to him. He continues to work in me and continues to make me more like Him as I seek His will. Through his grace I am able to become a more secure individual. I am encouraged by James 1:5 that reminds us that God gives wisdom free to all who ask.
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Question 53
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Clinton and Sibcy discuss six different types of child abuse. Identify and summarize four of the six types of abuse, utilizing 1–2 sentences per type. pp.109–111
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Answer: Psychological Abuse: By means of put downs, being
harsh, and inconsistent. The Parents are insensitive to their children.
Emotional Neglect: By not showing the child any form of affection. The Physical needs are meet but not the genuine care and concern for the well bing of the child.
Physical Abuse: Hitting the child, kicking the child, biting, burning the child. Any form of non accidental injury.
Sexual abuse and Incest: Foundling, having intercourse with the child of non consensual age having intercourse with members outside of the family. Inside the family is incest.
Exposure to Severe Martial Conflict: Children witnessing the parents in abusive and verbal relationship. This causes fear to the child in their security of the home.
Addictive Behavior: this is a mixture of the above types of behavior and the family is in denial of it. As a mater of fact, the parents will be in denial of any of these types of abuses.
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Question 54
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Describe one of the spiritual disciplines discussed in the book (Chapter 8), and explain how it can be applied to your life.
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Out of the spiritual disciplines listed in Why You Do the Things You Do: The Secret to Healthy Relationships by Clinton & Sibcy (2006) the one that sticks out the most to me as being immediately applicable is solitude. I know in my hectic day to day schedule, I need to sit down and just be quiet for fifteen minutes. I know that I am good at keep my electronic devices very close to me. So just to put away what I call my “third hand” and to be still is very vital. Also, God reminds us that we need to do these things. I also know that journaling helps a lot. Journaling is a powerful way to release some of the pressures that we face, and it allows the time to communicate with God.
Being in solitude slows my mind down and allows me to be able to see things that I thought I had handled correctly in a better perspective. As the textbook states, “this discipline helps increase the power of selfreflection” (Clinton & Sibcy, 2006).
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Question 55
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John and Susan want to parent their children in a manner that fosters a secure relationship style. In your own words, briefly explain each of the four main goals of sensitive parenting.
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Sensitive parenting has four main goals;
Regulating Emotions This requires children to first identify their feelings and then begin to react appropriately to them. This means that they must learn to stop being selfish and understand that not everyone wants or needs the same thing they do.
Knowing a Warm Relationship A former counseling class taught me that for a child to succeed they need at least one person in their life to encourage them that they are valuable!
SelfAwareness When children begin to realize who they are they are able to understand who others are as well.
Developmental Focus The ultimate goal of parenting is teaching children to become successful adults themselves. This means that they will not always have you to rely on, but must learn how to find the answers on their own. [Show Less]